Is It Fair to Say Feminists Don't Care About Violence Against Men and That They Only Care About Violence Against Women?
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The Strawman Cometh
Not only is it unfair, it's extremely dishonest and intellectually lazy. It's your typical, garden variety strawman which is only meant to distract from legitimate issues involved in a subject or debate. Something that is akin to saying "feminist issues don't need to be addressed, because they are wrong in their attitude toward men." The obvious fallacy lies in the fact that feminism's legitimacy should be based on the actual validity of their positions. If we assume, for the sake of argument, that feminists don't care about violence against men, then that doesn't invalidate such issues as equal property and contract rights, equal voting rights, opposition to forced marriages, sexual and reproductive rights, economic and employment equality, and, of course violence toward women.
All of these, and many more, are issues that feminism has dealt with and none of them are dependent on feminist's attitudes toward men in order to have value as an issue. In fact, every one of them is an issue that could be debated, independent of feminism's advocacy for them, as a stand alone subject. You certainly don't have to be apathetic toward violence against men to believe that women should have a right to vote, receive equal pay, and not be sexually harassed or physically abused.
A Feminist Answers:
"No one is saying that discussions on men and masculinities (sic) shouldn’t go on. It is absolutely important to have dialogue on men’s issues, including discussions on violence done towards men. But, the thing is, men, not women, need to be the ones creating the spaces to discuss men’s issues." Feminism 101 Blog - FAQ: Aren't feminists just sexists towards men?
"Just because a person decides that they want to address one specific topic does not mean that they don’t care about, or address, other topics. Most people have more than one area of interest, and therefore will have more than one topic that they discuss.
Furthermore, just because someone decides to spend an article, or a series of posts, or even an entire blog entry to one specific topic does not mean that they think that said topic is the only important — or even the most important — issue to discuss. Nor can we assume that the discussion of Special Interest X is the only thing that the person is doing; for all we know they could have a gaggle of other posts devoted to Important Issue™ Y, or be involved with activism related to Y, or even be active in discussing not only Y by Important Issue™ Z and W as well." Feminism 101 Blog - FAQ: Why are you concentrating on X when Y is so important?
Men Are Big Boys
The reason that feminism is associated closely with those issues is because they are issues that profoundly affect women. For obvious reasons, feminists have a primary interest in issues that effect women. It really shouldn't be surprising that a group chiefly populated by women would take up matters that relate mostly to women. By the same token, why shouldn't men be the ones advancing uniquely male issues, such as violence (exclusively) aimed at men? It generally follows that the person or group most effected by discrimination drives the discourse surrounding that topic. All the more so, being that feminist issues generally involve women's treatment by, or in relation to, men.
Furthermore, men simply don't need feminists to run to their rescue, because they are very much capable of standing up for their own rights. Men are overwhelming represented within every segment of society, including government, business, and the media. There is no shortage of access to venues for men to address issues that predominantly effect men. By contrast, most feminist issues would receive little, if any, attention if not for the fact that a group devoted to issues effecting women exists.
What is Feminism?
Feminists Are Multi-taskers
Having established that men are the ones responsible for men's issues, yet another reason this isn't a fair question is because it assumes and/or falsely implies that feminists aren't in fact involved with issues that relate to violence against men or other non-female groups. Truth is that activists are rarely involved in one, singular group or issue. There are many subjects and political disputes that effect individual activists that might not necessarily be universally connected to women's issues. Thus, while they might appeal to certain feminists, they would not be a part of feminism itself. For instance, a vegetarian feminist is likely to be involved in animal rights groups; an Asian feminist is likely to be involved in anti-racism groups; a feminist, who is also a pacifist, is likely to be involved in anti-war groups, etc.
It's rather naive or simple-minded (if not both) to believe that people involved in one group are incapable of being involved with or having sympathetic feelings toward other groups and issues that might be outside the realm of the first group. In regards to violence, it would be unlikely that you would find a peace rally that did not have its share of feminist attendees. While that might not relate specifically to violence toward men, it certainly would include them. So, not only is it unfair to make such a statement, it is an expression of ignorance and probably willful ignorance at that.
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Absolutely.
Just because I believe women should be equal to men doesn't mean I hate them. That's an old stereotype.
thanks for shedding light on this dim subject. yep I agree archetypal perception of men and women should be put in the back burner, it simply has no room in a progressive society. Greta hub! :D
Unfortunately, I'd have to agree to that too. What a downer :( Even in my country, it is a sad reality that although feminism has big support in cities, women in the rural areas are not as fortunate. And adding to that already tragic fact is that the media's arm only reaches as much. But but BUT it's never too late, no throwing in the towel :D
Barefoot N Preg!
Very nice answer - Another tired old stereotype is slain.
Keep up the good fight!
A great hub, and one I agree with.
I would add, though, that it is possible for domestic violence to be considered as a gender-neutral issue
Sadly, whilst feminism has come so far, there are still so many inequalities. Earnings gaps, glass ceilings and bullying are still condoned by the 'powerbrokers.' Whilst most countries have laws against such discrimination, there are so many loopholes.
As you explained so beautifully, they use 'Fear of the Feminist' and 'What about Men?' to promote their agenda. I know many feminists, and they would be the first to speak out about any violence, so even the strawman can be argued against. I suppose that I am technically a feminist myself, part of my belief in equality for all, irregardless of gender, sexuality, age, race or disability. My mother is a child of the 60's!
Education is the only answer and I do see a lot of hope for equality amongst younger folk. My generation still has too much sexist, homophobic and racist baggage, but the next generation seems to be a lot more open-minded.
Yes, I agree with you.
Even I agree with the point that violence at home should be considered gender neutral issue. It happens that in most of the cases violence are caused to a woman and men the the culprit and this has given us an impression that if it is a violence especially a domestic one then "the victim has to be a woman and the tyrant has to be a man". But I guess it is high time to overcome this notion.
1) the issue is pointless (no offence) you can't get your bowels in an uproar about everything. if you have a cause, you need to stick to the point or you'd just be running around like an activist with ADD
2) feminism has made life a lot easier for men
This hub and it's comments are recommended reading for all sexes in my view. I am proud to be a hubber especially when I read a really clear well thought out hub like this.
Well done eyem4anachy and well done hubbers!
Sometimes I think battered men don't know how to stand up and be big boys. There is alot they could learned from these women. Thanks. Great hub!
Somewhere along the way Feminism became about women taking on the worst characteristics of men & men taking on best characteristics of women.
If feminists did care about violence against men, there would certainly be evidence in abundance. But there isn't, and argument is no substitute for evidence.
There are plenty of feminists that still beleive all men are rapists or abusers.
Actually, my first statement dismisses (rather than misses) your 'point' (your answer to the opening question), for lack of material evidence.
All that can be asserted is that there are probably some feminists that exist that aren't gender biased, i.e. they care about violence against men.
That still leaves room for the probability that there exist at least as many feminists that don't care about violence against men. By your own standards "refusing to accept that evidence isn't a substitute for disproving its existence"
In which case it is "Fair to Say Feminists Don't Care About Violence Against Men."
"There is plenty of room for the possibility that bankers don't care about bricklayers, which is also completely irrelevant and in no way represents a valid criticism of bankers."
Well, sure. But if bankers cared about violence against bricklayers who build chimneys but were ambivalent over violence against the guy who installs ceramic tile, then we'd have a proper analogy.
Your argument is a classic example of a Straw Man. No one said it was a banker's responsibility to care about either one. We were discussing the hypothetical situation wherein a banker does care for one group and doesn't care for another group that is virtually identical to the first.
It's an interesting thought experiment anyway. Thanks!
No, the implication in polite society is that violence against men or women is undesirable. When an organization emphasizes the horrors of violence to a narrowly defined class rather than the entire population, people naturally see their position as disingenuous.
So yer sayin' it's OK for a girl ta sock a guy, but the da other way 'round.
The question that is supposed to be being answered is "Is it fair to say *feminism* doesn't care about violence against men? and that it only cares about violence against women?"
See the box "Answers the question".
Substituting the word 'feminisim' with 'feminists' is creating a straw man argument, which by your own standards is "extremely dishonest and intellectually lazy".
No material evidence has been presented to show that women endure violence that is "disproportionate to the entire population."
Since you have admitted that it isn't the resposibility of feminists/feminism to care about violence against men, then it is "Fair to Say Feminism Doesn't Care About Violence Against Men and That It Only Cares About Violence Against Women."
"Who's creating a strawman now? "
It's contagious!
Whhaaa?? I learned plenty about strawman arguments simply by reading your hypotheticals. You create contradictory situations, then incorrectly apply them to an unrelated point. If Wikipedia crashes, please donate your examples to http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Straw_man so they can recover.
You changed three words of the question: 'feminism' to feminists, 'it' to they, and 'cares' to care.
I.e. you changed the question. To dismiss that as an inadvertant change of 'one of the letters', is perhaps "extremely dishonest and intellectually lazy".
Since feminism is unapologetically biased towards the interests and welfare of women, claims of feminism championing gender equality are fallacious. Without knowing and/or caring about the interests and welfare of men, feminism is prejudiced in these matters, and thus is not fit to make claims of gender equality.
Btw in many parts of the world (and for thousands of years) it has been (and still is) legal to kill and or abuse men and boys. Whether it's the military draft or hard slave labour, refusal to comply results in imprisonment and/or death.
Human history is littered with victimhood, and womens' claim to victimhood is no greater than mens' (and vice versa). Pretending otherwise is for "someone who likes to ignore reality".
Criticism is justified and necessary. An inclusive approach to solving human problems is needed, not a narrow minded one.
It is childish fantasy to credit feminism with many of womens' advancements in welfare and rights, and because feminists are obsessivley biased towards female victimhood, that's all they choose to see and give importance too. Feminists are all to eager to engage in victimhood competitions too.
According to the WHO violence webpage, of the 1.6 million people killed yearly by violence, 14% are men, 7% are women:
http://www.who.int/violence_injury_prevention/viol
A man is more likely to be murdered. A man is more likely to be killed or injured at work. Poorer health is a cause for mens' shorter life span. But I'm not complaining.
Since feminism considers womens' interests more important (superior) to mens', and since it does not concern itself nor care for the welfare of men, there is nothing in feminism that discourages feminist outcomes where the rights and welfare of men are neglected or infringed upon.
Thus feminism is consistent with a supremacist movement, by having no consideration for the rights of men, even if infringed upon by the movement.
In feminism, as with other forms of supremacism (nazism, racism etc), victimhood is exaggerated with the help of hate speach. The hate based claim 'all men are rapists' has its ugly roots in feminism.
Your suggestion that men in England were legally permitted to beat their wives is shown to be without foundation, according to this debate about feminist scholarship RE domestic violence:
http://chronicle.com/article/Domestic-Violence-a/4
You're right about one thing: having feminism incorporate mens' interests is indeed absurd... about as absurd as the KKK incorporating black peoples into its membership.
Not only is it true to say "feminism doesn't care about violence against men" and "that it only cares about violence against women", it is fair to say it.
Previous comment should have stated that violence accounts for 14% of deaths among males and 7% of deaths among females.
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